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Making New Friends: Tips for Queer Adults in Portland
For many queer adults in a vibrant city like Portland, forming new friendships can be both rewarding and challenging. The LGBTQ+ community has a rich tradition of connecting through bars, clubs, and social gatherings, creating spaces for individuals to bond. However, as life changes—whether from moving to a new area, starting a new job, or…
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Managing Metamour Relationships: How to Build Harmony in Polyamorous Partnerships
In polyamorous relationships, building and maintaining healthy connections is key to long-term success. One of the unique dynamics in polyamory is the metamour relationship—the connection between your partner’s partners. Managing metamour relationships can often feel overwhelming, but with open communication and intentional boundaries, you can foster a sense of harmony. Whether you’re new to polyamory…
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Cultivating Compersion in Polyamorous Relationships
Cultivating Compersion in Polyamorous Relationships Polyamorous relationships offer a unique and fulfilling way to experience love, connection, and intimacy with multiple partners. However, managing emotions like jealousy can be challenging. One powerful way to counter jealousy and strengthen emotional bonds in polyamorous relationships is by cultivating compersion. Compersion in poly relationships is the feeling of…
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Navigating Body Image in the Gay Bear Community
Introduction Body image significantly impacts our self-esteem, mental health, and relationships, particularly within the gay bear community. While this community embraces body positivity and diverse expressions of masculinity, many bears still grapple with body image issues that can affect their mental health and relationships. In my couples therapy practice, I’ve seen how these challenges manifest…
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Exploring Your Identity in a Heteronormative World
Growing up in a world that mostly assumes everyone is cis-gendered and heterosexual can feel isolating. For those who are asking important questions like “Who am I?” or “How do I express my gender?” this journey of exploring your identity can feel even harder. Questions like these are deeply personal, and without support, they can…
