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The Neurobiology of The Honeymoon Phase: What Happens When the Sparks Fade?
Falling in love is an extraordinary experience. The butterflies in your stomach, the constant thoughts about your partner, and the sheer excitement of being together—all of it feels electrifying and all-encompassing. If you’ve ever wondered why this happens, it’s because falling in love isn’t just an emotional process; it’s deeply neurobiological. This surge of intense…
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Nurturing Deeply Satisfying Sexual Relationships in Long-Term Partnerships
Maintaining a fulfilling sexual relationship in a long-term partnership can be challenging. As time goes on, the initial spark may fade, and couples often encounter shifts in desire, communication breakdowns, or the stress of daily life. While these changes are natural, they can leave partners feeling disconnected or unfulfilled. In this article, we’ll explore common…
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Supporting Yourself While Supporting Your Partner
Balancing Emotional Needs in Relationships: Strategies for Supporting Yourself While Supporting Your Partner and Nervous System Regulation In any relationship, especially couples, balancing your emotional needs with your partner’s can be challenging. It’s easy to feel overwhelmed by the demands of taking care of your own well-being while also supporting your partner. However, achieving this…
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Balancing Mental Load in Portland Relationships
Introduction to managing Mental Load In today’s fast-paced world, many couples in Portland juggle various responsibilities, from work and family obligations to social commitments and personal goals. As a result, it’s common for one partner to bear the weight of the “mental load”—the invisible burden of managing tasks, planning, and decision-making within the relationship. Understanding and…
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Essential Tools and Tips for Premarital Couples
Embarking on the journey of marriage is an exciting and significant milestone. While the wedding day is a special celebration, the true foundation of a successful marriage is laid long before the vows are exchanged. Premarital counseling is a crucial step for couples who want to strengthen their relationship and prepare for a lasting, healthy…
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Navigating Body Image in the Gay Bear Community
Introduction Body image significantly impacts our self-esteem, mental health, and relationships, particularly within the gay bear community. While this community embraces body positivity and diverse expressions of masculinity, many bears still grapple with body image issues that can affect their mental health and relationships. In my couples therapy practice, I’ve seen how these challenges manifest…
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The Transformative Power of Couples Therapy
You’ve probably heard the phrase, “You can’t love others until you love yourself.” While there’s some truth in this, it’s also true that we can love both ourselves and others at any stage of our healing journey. By exploring what holds us back and learning to be kinder to ourselves, we can nurture love within…
