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Intimacy After Marriage: What Couples Should Know About the Evolution of Sex Over Time
When you’re planning a wedding, it’s easy to get caught up in the excitement of the big day and the romantic ideals of happily ever after. But what happens after the vows are exchanged? For couples, understanding how intimacy evolves over the course of a marriage can set the stage for a healthy and satisfying…
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How to Rebuild Trust After a Breach in Non-Monogamous Relationships
Trust is the cornerstone of any relationship, but in non-monogamous partnerships, it takes on a uniquely important role. Agreements about boundaries, communication, and expectations create a sense of safety that allows partners to thrive. When those agreements are broken, the impact can feel devastating—but it doesn’t have to mean the end of the relationship. With…
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How to Fight Fair: Conflict Resolution Strategies That Strengthen Relationships
Disagreements are inevitable in any relationship, but how couples handle conflict can make the difference between growth and disconnection. Fighting fair isn’t about avoiding disagreements altogether; it’s about navigating them in a way that strengthens your connection rather than eroding it. Drawing from the work of Stan Tatkin, founder of the Psychobiological Approach to Couples…
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How to Introduce Kink into Your Relationship: A Therapist’s Guide
Introducing kink into your relationship can be an exciting journey of exploration, trust, and deeper connection. Whether you’re curious about spicing up your dynamic or you’ve long felt a pull toward kink but didn’t know how to bring it up, this guide is here to help you navigate that process with confidence and care. Incorporating…
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Portland’s Best Date Night Spots for Couples Looking to Reconnect
Life gets busy—work deadlines pile up, household chores seem endless, and before you know it, date nights feel like a thing of the past. But your relationship deserves the space to breathe, recharge, and reconnect. Luckily, Portland offers a treasure trove of date night opportunities perfect for couples seeking meaningful time together. Whether you’re looking…
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Building a Resilient Foundation: Questions Every Couple Should Ask Before Marriage
Marriage marks the beginning of a profound commitment, but creating a resilient foundation for that commitment starts long before walking down the aisle. Taking the time to explore meaningful questions before marriage with your partner can set you up for success. Open, honest conversations help build clarity, deepen understanding, and foster a relationship rooted in…
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Finding Love as a Bear: Dating Tips for Navigating the Gay Bear Community
Finding love in the gay bear community can feel like searching for the perfect balance between honey and fur—sweet, warm, and deeply comforting. The bear community offers a welcoming space where authenticity shines, yet dating in any community comes with its challenges. Whether you’re new to the bear scene or looking for ways to deepen…
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Queer Pleasure: Breaking Free from Heteronormative Expectations in the Bedroom
Sexual intimacy is one of the most personal and profound ways we connect with our partners. Yet, many of us carry ingrained ideas about what sex “should” look like—ideas rooted in heteronormative narratives that often limit our capacity for pleasure and connection. For queer couples, challenging these expectations creates space to redefine intimacy in ways…
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Building Emotional Resilience in LGBTQ+ Relationships
Every relationship encounters stress, but LGBTQ+ couples often face unique challenges, including societal pressures, discrimination, and the impact of marginalization. Building emotional resilience within your relationship is not only possible but essential for thriving together. By fostering healthy coping mechanisms and drawing from the work of experts like Emily Nagoski (Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking…
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Exploring Masculinity in the Bear Community
In the gay bear community, masculinity often takes center stage. Many bears take pride in their rugged, confident, and strong personas. These traits often challenge traditional gay stereotypes and feel empowering to embrace. However, the emphasis on masculinity can sometimes create a barrier to vulnerability. This becomes especially important in relationships where emotional intimacy is…
